
DOES (Your) LOVE FULFILL THE LAW?
By Bro. Mark Bullen
The woman’s voice coming through the phone was emphatic and passionate, “To obey God is simply to “love”; for when you love, you have obeyed all his commands. Love fulfills the law!”
Have you ever heard this before? This is the war cry of every liberal, feminist, and humanist who claims to be a Christian. Is it true? They wish to make a Pharisee out of every person who disagrees with them. It is astounding how much bold irreverence and disobedience to Scripture is applauded as long as it is from a “loving” person, or done for the “cause of charity”. Since Satan’s first tactic to deceive mankind was to masquerade as having a “loving” concern for their best interests; while he at the same time slandered God’s love and intentions; we need to examine this issue in the light of Scripture, lest we be found no wiser than Eve. Well, why don’t we put all emotion aside and look at what the Scripture says with a humble, teachable heart.
Mat 22:36 Master, which is the great commandment in the law? Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.
Now, Jesus said one of two things: (1) Either he was saying that God’s law was based on (or hung from) Loving God first and our neighbor as ourself; and therefore the greatest aspect of the law was the “spirit” of the law (God’s reason for the commands). This would mean that the purpose of the law was simply to teach us how to love, and the commandments were a result of God’s love.
Or, (2) he was saying that the Jews really only had to be “loving”, and God would have been pleased, whether or not they obeyed the specific commands. As long as they were “loving” in their attitude toward others, they would have pleased God, even if they didn’t obey the law.
Since #2 is so popular in our day, let us suppose it to be the case in the Old Testament. When Jesus said, “On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets”; he was saying, “It has always been this way”, not just, “from now on it will be this way”. The “law and the prophets” is a term that applies to the whole old testament; and therefore, what Jesus is saying applied to the Old Testament saints also.
What if a man got the idea that he did not have to keep the Sabbath as long as he loved God. He understood that “love” fulfilled the law, so he decided as long as he loved God, praised God, prayed and sang, that he didn’t have to keep the Sabbath. Well, fortunately for us, there was such a case in the Old Testament in Numbers 15. A man who was caught picking up sticks on the Sabbath was set aside to see what God would say. God’s verdict was that anyone who knowingly disobeys one of God’s commandments, however small it may be (picking up sticks is pretty small); was, in fact, despising the Word of the Lord, and therefore should be stoned to death. This man was not said to be guilty of any other violations, but was otherwise a good Israelite. So, no matter how much this man thought he loved God, God saw his deliberate disobedience to Scripture as the opposite of love.
So, we need to rephrase our question. Instead of, “Does love fulfill the law?” we need to ask, “Does your perception of love fulfill the law?” In God’s mind, the love that fulfills the law is the love that obeys the law with the “spirit” of the law, which is benevolence. This is exactly what Jesus did in His walk on earth. Jesus never broke the least of the Law’s commandments. This was necessary for Him to be a spotless lamb for His atoning sacrifice.
Well, what about in the New Testament? What if someone got the idea that, as long as they were showing love, they didn’t have to be honest. Well, fortunately we have just that case in Acts 5. Again, the verdict of the Lord was that love that didn’t obey, wasn’t really love; therefore, Ananias and his wife were put to death by the Holy Spirit. Everybody knows that their actions appeared loving on the outside, and surely would help the needy; but, no matter how loving they appeared, God saw double motives and dishonesty. Much “love” today is of the same character. “Knowing therefore the terror of the Lord, we persuade men.” (2 Cor. 5:11) Will you listen?
Charity or Carnality?
God’s love is much different than what most men call love. Carnal men base their love on their value system. Their value system says that the happiness of man is the highest “good”. Therefore to “love” is to do whatever makes the other person happy. They believe that they have the right to pursue their own happiness as the highest good. However, man’s happiness is not the highest good in God’s eyes, and he has sacrificed man’s happiness many times for a much higher cause. It is a shock and offense to most people to find out that they are not the biggest thing going, and that the world doesn’t revolve around them. This is manifested in how they treat God when things go wrong.
Look at this verse and tell me who is the “loving” person: “They that forsake the law, praise the wicked, but such as keep the law, contend with them” (Prov. 28:4). Who is the “negative” person? Who is the “compassionate” and “loving” person? Well, it depends on whose value system you use. The wicked will claim the person who has forsaken the law as the loving person; but the righteous will say that the one contending is the one who loves God and man with a true love.
God’s love is a love that sees what is best for his entire universe, not what is
pleasant to one at the expense of another. What was it that the Father saw in the
Son that pleased him more than anything else? Listen to God’s proclamation as he
crowns the Son: “Thy throne, O God, is for ever and ever: a scepter of righteousness
is the scepter of thy kingdom. Thou hast loved righteousness and hated iniquity;
therefore God, even thy God, hath anointed thee with the oil of gladness above thy
fellows” (Heb. 1:8-
“By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God and keep his
commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments.” 1 John
5:2-
“And this is love, that we walk after his commandments.” 2 John 6
Charity or Conspiracy
The false prophet will usually appear more “loving” to the carnal man than the true prophet will – just ask old Ahab (II Chron. 18). The liberal compromiser is not grieved at your sin, pride, vanity, or worldliness; so naturally he will appear more “loving” – he is a good politician, and that’s all. Concern about the leaven in your life, and its potential effect on his own family and church, as well as on your soul, is absent; because it doesn’t affect his agenda. He is like the quack who gives you a clean bill of health, while ignoring your highly contagious disease; because he doesn’t want to hurt the relationship – His “love” is fatal.
You see, the approach of the false prophet is to “allure through the desires of the
flesh”; to “promise liberty”; and he “speaks great swelling words” (II Peter 2) to
flatter and draw you in for his own ego trip. This all sounds loving and kind; and
that is why carnal men who choose not to endure sound doctrine will run to these
false teachers with their humanistic “love” gospel (II Tim 4:3-
No Christian was ever persecuted for being “loving” in the eyes of carnal men; but
for truly loving in speaking the truth in love and calling men to repentance. The
Bible doesn’t say, “Love God and Love man”; rather it says, “love God first with
all your heart, soul, mind, and strength; and then love your neighbor as yourself
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Charity without Chastity
“Charity” is the pseudo-
“By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God and keep his
commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments.” I John
5:2-
Is it any wonder that John gave this criteria for determining whether we are really
loving our brethren; “By this we know we love the brethren, when we love God and
keep his commandments”. John knew all about “Jezebel” in the New Testament church
at Thyatira. He had encountered Diotrephes. He knew all about the Gnostics who touted
“love” as the justification for their disobedience to the teachings of Christ-
Charity or Quackery?
Paul, in describing the actions of the false teachers in Corinth, suggests in II
Cor. 11:20 that if a man “exalts himself”, he is committing the same basic sin against
his neighbor as if he “brought him into bondage, devoured him, took of him, or smote
him on the face”-
They were happier to introduce their worldly friends to this slick false apostle, than to the true apostle, who did not value the vanities of this world. Paul came not to them with “excellency of speech” or “enticing words of man’s wisdom”. People who are spiritually immature will gravitate to the boaster and the one excelling in carnal pursuits who sets himself as a spiritual leader, though they suffer bondage by it. Yet, they will flee from the true spiritual leader who is teaching them to observe apostolic faith and practice, since their false teacher calls that bondage. Just read Corinthians. Paul had abased himself among them to walk the road of humility; but his opponents labeled this a weakness. “Charity vaunteth not itself, Is not puffed up, doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own…” The point is that the Corinthians couldn’t figure out who was loving them – Paul or the false teacher. Because they were too immature to recognize true love, we find Paul saying, “The more abundantly I love you, the less I be loved”
If I live a chaste, humble life, then I am loving you by setting a proper example for you and convicting you to also live this way. I am not provoking you to excel in worldly things, but only in spiritual graces by my example and teaching. I am loving you by honoring you and protecting your dignity in that I am holding myself in check and not exalting myself over you in the areas where I may be more fortunate. Everyone has strong points and weak points. If I keep my strong points veiled in your presence, then you will not feel the need to flaunt your strong points, and we can just love one another without competing to protect our dignity. In fact, we are free to praise each other’s strong points. “Let another man praise thee, and not thine own lips”. Proverbs 27:2
However, if I dress up in costly array, brag on my accomplishments, boast of my riches and abilities, or (in the woman’s case) paint – polish – and perm in the latest fashion, I am not loving my neighbor for a number of reasons:
1. I am being a bad example, and example is the strongest moral influence.
2. I am leading you into the bondage of a carnal, self-
3. I may be attracting the eye of your mate to desire me or defrauding and offending their thought life by my immodest dress or conduct.
4. I may be causing your wife to be discontent with the money you make when I flaunt or boast of my vacations, possessions, fun, etc.
5. I may be building dangerous appetites in your children to dress up, live it up, gratify unholy desires, pursue pleasure or vanity, etc.
6. I am ultimately gaining at another’s expense and loss. I am insulting your dignity by exalting my strong points.
7. I am promising liberty, and promoting a prosperity gospel, when in fact I am enslaved by my own pride. I am promoting the fruits of pride and worldly values.
…And all the time I am smiling, speaking sweet words – yea, swelling words of vanity. All the time I am being so “sweet” and “friendly”, and telling how much I “love”. This is simply Charity without chastity, and is evil seduction. The worst part of it all is that this is done by those who attempt to represent Christ to a lost and dying world. God hates it.
Any time I exalt myself, I smack you in the face. This is not love. The world sees
these pleasure and glory seeking “Christians” and the convicting work of the Holy
Spirit is thwarted because sinners justify their broad-
Charity or Charm?
If you read the Scripture, you will find it was the false prophets whom “all men spoke well of”, because they spoke “smooth” things that sympathized with the people’s sinful attitudes. They made them “feel” loved by God, though they had not fully submitted and obeyed God’s Word, by their “ear tickling fables”. This has always been one of Satan’s best tactics – the false libertine prophet (2 Peter 2; 2 Timothy 4; 1 John; Jude, etc.). “While they promise them liberty, they themselves are the servants of corruption” 2 Peter 2:19.
Even if I speak good things, but live wrong; I am simply leading you to believe good things while you live wrong. This is the most subtle form of deception – To convince you that your performance does not affect your position with God – “Ye shall not surely die.” This applies to many Christian books on the market. Much of the contents may be profitable, but the context is poison – I mean the connection to the author’s doctrine and lifestyle on the whole. The good words in the book endear you to the author so you will swallow his entire package – rat poison is 99% good food. Love is that which provokes me to urge you onward to reach your potential, not by my boasting of myself, but by washing you with the Word of God, and teaching you true doctrine.
Yes, true doctrine will spur you on to perfection, whereas Antinomian heresy (Unconditional eternal security) only dulls you down and makes you feel secure, thereby putting you into greater danger than you were already in. True doctrine sets you to overcoming, enduring, holding fast, humbling down, running with patience, and laying hold on eternal life by a living faith in the conditional love and grace of God. “If ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in my love;” John 15:10
Maybe this section should be called “Charity or Charmin” (as in, “Don’t squeeze the
Charmin”). Many people are proud to be “softies”; but that is not “true Christian
love”, only miss-
The Word of God must be the acid test for life’s issues, not your feelings or the feelings of others. “If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple. And whosoever doth not bear his cross, and come after me, cannot be my disciple.” Luke 14:26, 27. Jesus knew that only those who live and love by eternal principles, rather than feelings, would make it in the Christian life.
Charity with Character
He that saith, I know him, and keepeth not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him. But whoso keepeth his word, in him verily is the love of God perfected:” I John 2:4
“That the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit” Romans 8:4
“Love worketh no ill to his neighbor: therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.” Romans 13:10
Yes! Love fulfills the law, because true love indeed fulfills the law by making us “doers of the righteousness of the law” – the moral law of God presented to the Jews in the Old Testament law and presented to the Christians in the New Testament. We New Testament believers are called to enter into Christ’s Kingdom and live under the “law of Christ”. This is a higher manifestation of God’s morality than we see in the Old Testament law. We are now the true worshippers who worship God in spirit and in truth, not just in carnal ordinances and for temporal blessings. We are called to live by a higher standard of action and attitude. Attitude never takes the place of action – you must have both.
Yes! Love works no ill to his neighbor; but your perception of love may be doing exceeding ill to your neighbor. Jesus told His disciples to teach, baptize, and teach the converts to observe ALL things whatsoever he commanded – not just go love everybody. Why? Because every ordinance and principle taught in the New Testament teaches you HOW TO LOVE PROPERLY. You don’t know how to love until you are doing it God’s way! Until you are obeying every command and precept in the New Testament, your “love” is lacking important ingredients that keep it from fulfilling God’s law. “But whoso keepeth his word, in him verily is the love of God perfected (completed)”
The seven churches of revelation had different ideas about love. We need to observe
well and not emulate what Christ rebuked. Notice that the ones who are not rebuked,
are suffering persecution for their love. Many today who think they love Christ are
really in love with their denomination, ism, dogma, or lifestyle – all which they
wish to defend with sanctified sophistry. Those who truly love Christ, also love
all truth, and hunger and thirst after righteousness. They are willing to leave the
leeks and garlics of old Egypt and “tough-
Have you ever seen the parents who just “loved” their children so much they never told them “no” or disciplined them? The Bible calls this “hate”, not love (Prov. 13:24). The Bible says this will send your child to Hell, not lead them to Heaven (Prov. 23:13,14). Now, if the Bible says that love works no ill to his neighbor, then is the Scriptural use of the rod of correction working ill? I suppose that depends on what your value system says – ask the rebellious child who hasn’t received his needed share. The rebel will say spanking is working ill; but God says the neglect of spanking is working ill. Do you see how love can easily be turned around to the opposite of what God intended, and how carnal minded men will immediately latch on to the fallacious meaning? The person who spanks is the loving one in God’s estimation – if, of course, they are practicing the “letter” with the “spirit” of the law. “As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent” –Jesus
Love has priorities. Jesus said to love our enemies; but not more than we love our Lord, children, wife, neighbor, friends, faith, etc. Love in proper priority will help you to understand the relationship between God ordained discipline (on family, church and state levels) and God’s love and mercy. “God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace to the humble.” Love without proper priorities will end up supporting all sorts of foolishness: From protecting animals to the detriment of people, to protecting criminals while aborting babies. All this stupidity is excused in the name of “love”.
Obeying every principle and command in the New Testament in the “spirit” of the law is the only “love” that can be used in the verses that speak of love. If this love is not your love, then your love is not what God commands, nor are you in a position to judge others as “unloving” based on your perspective. Your judgment is not mature yet.
Of Charity and Church
Most people judge the love of a church group by how much acceptance they received from the people; but this is not right thinking. We should judge the love of a church group by:
1. How much they are trying to please God, and…
2. How much they are sincerely trying to help us be pleasing to God.
“Charity… rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth”
I Corinthians 13:6
Usually, when I have heard people complain that a group is unloving, I have later learned two things: 1. The person complaining was a “taker” and not a “giver” – they didn’t do much loving, but expected to receive plenty; and 2. The person needed to change some things that they were unwilling to change. So they concluded this church lacked love because they didn’t feel unconditional acceptance. The people wanted to help them with a need in their life; However, this offended them, because they didn’t want to acknowledge a need in their life – and if they did, “they could take care of it themselves just fine, thank you”.
If we love Christ first, then our church will diligently seek to please Christ and
preserve his Faith and Practice. Then our drive will be to make man pleasing to God.
But, if our love is to please and “win” people; then our church will be geared to
attract people, entertain them, and make them feel comfortable and accepted -
I’ll tell you who the unloving church is: It is the church that draws you into a fashion race by exalting themselves in this way. It is the church where your husband has to be careful where his eyes go because of the immodesty. It is the church where your wife is encouraged to fix and flaunt at your expense. It is the church where there is not a standard of holiness upheld for all members equally. It is the church where the leaders don’t meet Bible qualifications. It is the church where “worldly gain” is trumpeted as God’s blessing to the faithful. It is the church where the youth tear down the chastity you teach your young person at home. It is the church where people who carefully obey all the teachings of the New Testament are called Pharisees. It is the church that is in love with “pleasing people” more than pleasing Christ. It is the church who labels as “unloving” those parents who back away from fellowship in this environment because it tears away at the godly fabric of their faith and home order. I could go on and on and on, but to what end? We who fear God and strive to obey have “been there” and can testify to what I am saying. May God open the blinded eyes of the haughty and proud before they reach their destruction. May we not become uncharitable towards those who malign us – “Charity suffereth long and is kind”.
"Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him." 1Jn. 2:15
Mark Bullen
Living Faith Christian Fellowship
www.thefaithoncedelivered.info